Monday, November 9, 2009

Used VS Loved


Dear all,

A Short Inspiring Story Entitled :

USED vs LOVED


While a man was polishing his new car,
His 4 yr old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times not realizing he was using a wrench (alat utk mengetat / melonggarkan skru - diperbuat drp besi).

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures (tulang2 yg patah).

When the child saw his father .....
With painful eyes he asked, ' Dad when will my fingers grow back ? '



The man was so hurt and speechless;
he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.

Devastated by his own actions ......
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;

The child had written

' LOVE YOU DAD '

The next day that man committed suicide. . .


Anger and Love have no limits;
choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life & remember this:

Things are to be used and people are to be loved.

The problem in today's world is that people are used while things are loved.

Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:

Things are to be used,
People are to be loved.



Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.


I'm glad a friend forwarded this to me as a reminder.

I hope you have a good day no matter what problems you may face .
It's the only day you'll have before it's over.



Source : From an email sent to my by a good pal.



2 comments:

pakcik mamau said...

terharu pakcik bace.. tak tau nk ckp ape..teddy tu pun comel! hehehe..

Choy HH said...

hehe, teddy tu ada maksud yg tersirat , haha. Nak tisu ? nah, air mata dari setiap insan teramat lah berharga dan mengandungi pelbagai kisah, percaya ? Kalau Uncle peminat cerita drama Jepun dan ingin menonton jenis yg buat anda menangis tdk berhenti , cuba 1 litre of tears dan Mukodono (2003).

Banyak lagi cerita yg membuat pembaca terharu, kena lah view balik entry saya lama2.

Uncle, tadi saya ada post soalan ttg IT di blog anda, tdk mengapa, saya cut n paste soalan2 tersebut di sini, harap uncle akan view semula komen yg lepas :

[ Uncle Mamau,

Saya menggunakan Windows Vista. Ada cara utk format C drive sahaja tanpa mengganggu B - drive (saya manually buat partition)?

Tapi malas nak install balik semua software (yg saya install di C drive, lagipun CD ROM saya ada masalah -

Semua dvd yg saya burn dulu, xleh nak read termasuk DVD dari rakan tapi yg peliknya, CD ttg software yg Ori spt Vista, Nero dan sebagainya boleh pula di read ...

Any idea what is wrong dan ada method yg boleh dikongsi bsama? Terima kasih dan SEMANGAT 1 MAlAYSIA !

ChoyHH ]